This week I shared a post about what somatic coaching actually is and how it can really help you to reach your goals more quickly than just using traditional coaching methods like mindset work.
I fully believe that there is room for all approaches and I work on multiple levels with clients depending on where they are at, what they need and what is appropriate.
This includes somatic and mindset work but also working with unconscious programming and beliefs, behavioural change and emotions. Using ALL of this is where the magic is… but ‘somatics’ is one of those buzz words right now so lets peel back the layers a bit, answer some of your questions and let you know what may actually happen in a session so that it’s not so scary.
What is somatics?
It’s been around since the late 18th century and comes from the Greek sōmatikos, from sōma ‘body’. The physical body as perceived from within.
Somatic techniques may be used in coaching, therapy, bodywork, psychotherapy, dance, breath work, spiritual practices and meditation.
Why take this approach?
Somatic therapy works on the hypothesis that what happens in your life is stored not only in your mind as a memory but also in your body.
By focusing on the mind and body you are taking a more comprehensive approach to healing. If you focus on mindset work alone then events may not be fully integrated and healed and old patterns may resurface.
How does that fit into coaching?
Somatic coaching helps people gain insights by tuning into their physical sensations and emotions, tapping into their internal experience.
Involving the body in healing and mindset modalities often leads to much deeper and faster insights and awareness. The body holds immense wisdom outside of the mind because of its connection to your nervous system.
A healthy nervous system
Having trained with a somatic psychotherapist and coach using somatic work is integral to my coaching approach.
Having a healthy and balanced nervous system that can respond well to life’s stressors is at the heart of the work that I do with clients. It is important that clients understand what this means for them but also feel it. This is where somatic work comes in.
Working within the window of tolerance somatic work allows us to really see what is happening. Many of my clients have a maladapted stess response : either stuck in fight, flight or freeze. Tuning in to this with somatic work allows us to take the first step of awareness and to build a feeling of safety to be able to begin to work with widening the window of tolerance and building resilience over time.
When I would use somatic
Somatic work really compliments coaching and allows me to support my clients to move stuck energy through, with or without a story.
This is importnat as it means that we don’t have to revisit the past release energy and feelings from past events.
However, It can also be used with conscious awareness using the physical sensations that arise from emotion to extract wisdom, messages or memories that exist.
What that might look like in a session
- Grounding exercises
- Helping clients explore where they feel most activated
- Using different exercises to extract wisdom
- Using breath, movement, or sound to release energy or move stuck energy
- combining mindset, unconscious or self forgiveness work
- Inner child work, meditation, visualization, emotional resourcing
The real life benefits
Clients draw connections and have insights during sessions, and leave empowered with new awareness.
They communicate better, feel freer, and are able to access more play and joy in their lives. Clients with chronic health conditions notice less symptoms.
They are clearer, calmer, less reactive to triggers and stressors and have a greater ability to relax and cope with stress.
Great right?! I often find that it can be the missing piece.
I have gained so much personally from guided somatic work including breathwork, inner child work, meditation and visualisation.
Doing the inner work on my patterns and peeling back the layers so that change in the present is easy has been absolute game changer in my life. It has impacted everything.
Knowing something cognitively, and then KNOWING something because it’s an all body knowing are two very different things.
Aside from the internal growth, I am no longer easily triggered into a sympathetic nervous system response. Something I never thought would happen as I have EDS and PoTS. I am in tune with my emotions and my body sensations so that I give my body what it needs when it needs it without guilt. I manage pain better because of this too. All tangible wins.
Interested in how somatic work may support you?! Book a call to have a chat.
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